Henry Makow – Managing the Male Sex Drive

Managing the Male Sex Drive

Nature does not leave human reproduction to chance.
Men have been cursed with a relentless instinct to fornicate or, put more delicately, “spread the seed.”
Men need to overcome this spell which permanently distracts and emasculates them.
This article explores ways single males can control this powerful instinct used by the iLLUMiNATi to destabilize them, e.g. pornography.

When I wrote this article in 2004, I didn’t realize I was describing a form of occult possession i.e. sex addiction.
Sexual liberation” used our sexual desires to dehumanize and enslave us. Cabalist Jews are hooked on sex (https://www.henrymakow.com/porn_in_the_war_against_you.html) and bow we all are. Satanists believe sex is the highest experience life has to offer. Now society believes it too.

At age 12, in 1961 I saw the movie Spartacus, directed by Stanley Kubrick.

Jean Simmons &.Kirk Douglas (foto henrymakov.com)JPG

Jean Simmons &.Kirk Douglas (foto henrymakov.com)

In one scene, the camera focuses on Kirk Douglas’ face as Jean Simmons sheds her gown. His face is full of wonderment and awe, lighted by the mystical glow seeming to emanate from her naked body but actually from the fire.

The scene made a profound impression on me, a boy just entering puberty. Clearly, the sight of the naked female body is religious experience, I thought.

We don’t appreciate the extent to which we are programmed by the Illuminati (Cabalist) Jews who control Hollywood. Most of our ideas about romance, sex and marriage come from the movies.

The iLLUMiNATi is a sex cult. It programs us to worship the fertile female, bestow her with virtue, and regard intercourse as the highest experience life offers. This is what Satanists want us to believe.

Romantic love is our ersatz religion. Sexual intercourse is the holy sacrament.

I subscribed to Playboy and devoured nudes with Spartacus adoration. Henceforth, I judged females primarily on sex appeal; all others were invisible. I also equated sexual desire with love, and love with religion. Idealization results in impotence. I became dysfunctional, unable to relate to women as they really are, flawed insecure human beings. I put them on a pedestal and my love life was a disaster.

Trump does satanic handsign (foto henrymakov.com)

Trump does satanic handsign (foto henrymakov.com)

This subversive verse from Paul Simon’s “Kathy’s Song” (1965, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l-BBIJc8sXk) became the anthem of my dysfunctional generation:

So you see I have come to doubt
All that I once held as true
I stand alone without beliefs
The only truth I know is you.”

The Seekers’ “We’ll build a World of our Own” was my favorite song.

We were taught to be “alienated” from society and to seek fulfilment in romance.

A reader, JJ, writes: “Frank Zappa said that the vast majority of mental illness comes from love songs in popular music, songs that depict a reality that will never exist for the listener. These songs program you into thinking that you’ll be happy forever with someone, thus making you disappointed when it doesn’t happen. You can’t go anywhere without hearing them. When you’re awake, they’re just annoying sonic wallpaper, but otherwise, they affect how you think and feel, believe it.


Uprooted from our true historical and spiritual context, we were told life is meaningless: find meaning in sex. Thus sex assumed a hugely disproportionate place in our lives. This is a satanic possession.

We were brainwashed to think sexual intercourse was a mystical experience that united us with God. This is based on Cabala (https://www.henrymakow.com/kabbalah-how-sex-became-our-religion.html?_ga=2.206423825.326876341.1560120839-1138398388.1512998546), the dogma of the iLLUMiNATi sex cult.

An erotomania is abroad through our civilization,” Francis Parker Yockey wrote in 1948. It is “the identification of ‘happiness’ with sexual love, holding it up as the great value, before which all honor, duty, patriotism, the consecration of Life to a higher aim, must give way.
Imperium, (p. 297)

This pervasive message has not changed. Sex is the way to God. All human relations are reduced to “hot or not.” Paradoxically this focus on sex is an impediment. A couple needs to first establish a human connection, not based on sex.


In Plato’s Republic, Socrates says that in old age he finally lost his sex drive, and felt as if he had been “released from the jaws of a wild beast.”

Nature did not intend for sex to become a lifelong obsession. It is part of the courtship and procreation phase. We are meant to marry young, have children and then focus our energy on more important things.

For men, the goal is to control our sex drive rather than to be controlled by it (or by women). How do men do this if they cannot find a compatible mate?

Obviously, most use pornography to masturbate. Most men would think of nothing else if they didn’t relieve the pressure.

But, as a sensible teenager said to me recently: “If I need to look at pictures, well then I don’t really need to do it.” His focus is on managing his sex drive, not on dissipation. By masturbating every few days, he can be “cool” with girls.

Men are programmed to think they need a woman’s love. We are actually taught that satisfying a woman is a prerequisite to manhood! This inflation of women is debilitating and actually impedes successful relationships. This is because heterosexuality is based on the exchange of female power for male power expressed as love. Power is the essence of masculinity. It is non-negotiable.

For most of my life, I could not make the distinction between a woman’s appearance and her character. Personality? Intelligence? The appearance was everything. No wonder they were unapproachable. They were chimaeras, not real human beings.

As long as a man craves a woman’s (or anyone’s) love, he is not a man. He can mark his coming-of-age from the moment he stops seeking female love.

Men are under the illusion that a woman will recognize and appreciate their sterling qualities – character, personality, skills etc.. Women used to love men. Today they are generally looking for a man to give them what they think they need – a good time, sex, security, status…

Instinctively, most want marriage and family but they have been tricked into squandering their short period of fertility by seeking power instead of love, career instead of marriage.

A satanic cult inverts healthy & unhealthy (foto henrymakov.com)

A satanic cult inverts healthy & unhealthy (foto henrymakov.com)

They have been taught to trade on their sex appeal instead of the qualities of wife and mother. Many men have turned to pornography which has made real women redundant to them. The difference between having sex with a self-proclaimed slut and masturbating to porn is negligible. Certainly, the latter is much safer.


One acquaintance doesn’t masturbate very often. “Why stoke the fires?” he says. He keeps his mind off sex and focuses on more exciting pursuits.

Upton Sinclair (1878-1968, foto henrymakov.com))

Upton Sinclair (1878-1968, (foto henrymakov.com)

This is called sublimation. The prodigious American writer Upton Sinclair (1878 – 1968), wrote in his Autobiography (1962):

My chastity was preserved at the cost of much emotional effort () What did I get in return for this? I got intensity and power of concentration; these elements in my make-up were the product of my effort to resist the tempter.
I learned to work fourteen hours a day at study and creative effort because it was only by being thus occupied that the craving for woman could be kept out of my soul. I recited the Wisdom of Solomon: “he that ruleth his spirit is greater than he that taketh a city. (Page 46)

According to Sinclair, and many religions, the energy goes right to the spiritual bottom line:

Imagine anyone wanting a lot of money or houses and servants or fine raiment if he knew how to be happy as I did! Imagine anyone becoming drunk on whiskey if he might become drunk on poetry and music, sunsets and valleys full of clover! (Page 56)


The masculine sex drive is a powerful creative force but it needs to be controlled and steered. We can do this by applying the brake (sublimation) and then releasing it (masturbation.) Every man is different and must find his own formula.

The world is run by a satanic (Cabalist i.e. Masonic Jewish) sex cult based in London which controls brainwashing (media and education.) They use sex to distract, degrade and control both men and women. The New World Order plan is to restore the feudal model in which we are serfs at best. They undermine resistance to their plot by destroying our sources of cohesion and identity: nation, race, religion and family.

Slavery begins with the mind. We can resist by not being controlled by sex.

Cabala How Sex Became Our Relgion
Sex Obsession is Satanic Possession

First comment from Dan Butler (1955 – 2017), https://www.henrymakow.com/2018/02/Dan-Butler.html)

Golden calf in The ten commandments (foto henrymakov)

Golden calf in The ten commandments (foto henrymakov.com)

For me, it was the orgy scene in Cecil B DeMille’s “biblical’ skin flick, THE TEN COMMANDMENTS. I was probably SIX (I got a woodie).

I bet the studio after party was X rated.

I had ‘made out’ with a few girls in high school. When I got car keys in my senior year, I got a steady girlfriend and a cheap motel on wheels. After War War Two, the car and the drive-in movie outdoor theatre empowered high school boys privacy with their prey, uh, I mean girlfriend for hours after dark on Friday and Saturday nights.

Hollywood cranked out softcore smut called ‘B‘ movies for the drive-ins. Teenage boys had access to ‘Dirty Magazines‘ in the back room of the sleazy little ‘Newsstands’ that were little but cover for porn shops even in the small towns if they had a college.

I had a ‘Nice Girl‘ for a senior year girlfriend. But because I could so easily get her off to myself in the car after dark, she became the object of the fantasies provoked by Playboy and Penthouse, and the Newsstand porn I hid under my bedroom dresser at home.

Now you must understand that my relationship with this girl had begun the old fashioned way. We met at the burger shop where we worked after school that summer of ‘72. The attraction had begun with enjoying conversation with each other; having similar interests and opinions about life. But once I got the car, and found the dirty bookstore, I began to morph into Mister Hyde. I recall becoming obsessed with finding girls in porn that looked like my girlfriend, so I could take it home and use it for the fantasy of things I hadn’t got her to do yet. She didn’t know about that, but she became stressed by the change in my behaviour. I skipped the conversations we’d enjoyed having and turned every date into a tryst. I had become obsessed.

I was aware of it, and I did feel vague guilt about it. But at seventeen lust is very easily triggered and stoked. Girls don’t break up with sexually obsessive boyfriends. It ends up corrupting them too. Her innocence was damaged, but that wasn’t why she broke off with me. A week before Prom she caught me making out with another girl after school.
I’ve never seen a look so fierce, and she slapped me so hard my ears rang.

I saw her again that fall on campus. She’d become a feminist.

Hollywood, ‘B‘ movies and ‘R‘ movies in the ’60s and 70s. The Drive in Movie. Porn. A diabolical subversive conspiracy?

You bet!

henrymakow.com, revised from Feb 2014


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